My Lovely Lady Lunch

After four new families moved in on my street, I decided I needed to host a lunch so that we could all spend a little time together.

I’ve lived on my street for 7 years and I try to be a very friendly person.  You’d think that I would have gotten to know everyone at this point.  You’d be wrong though.  There are at least three residents on the street with which I have NO relationship, and it’s a very small street, so maybe I’m not that friendly…hmm.  Anyway, one of these residents has lived here only 300 feet or so from my home and I have NEVER had a single conversation with her.  Yikes! This makes me sound like a social recluse.  I had no idea. You think you know yourself…

I knocked on each door on Sunday afternoon and invited each of them over for the following Thursday.  I thoroughly enjoyed the doorstep conversations I had with my neighbors, some I knew well and others it was my first time speaking to them.  Everyone seemed excited to have the invitation.

I was especially pleased to have met my neighbor Lindsay whom I have lived so near for seven years.  She was a delight.  As it turns out we attended the same high school and both have cute three-year old daughters.

I spent most the week cleaning and preparing my house.  Nothing motivates me to clean things up more than inviting a bunch of women over.  Why is that? By the skin of my teeth I had the house ready when the doorbell rang.  One by one, they showed up.

I made a delicious Orzo chicken Salad, sliced a pineapple and made some Snicker-doodles (I prefer to call them Sokol-doodles) the day before.  Each of the ladies showed up with food in hand and we had our selves a nice little Lady Party with yummy Lady Party food.

We had a nice time chatting, getting to know more about each other and discovering things we had in common. We talked about work, and babies and hobbies and all kinds of this and that.

Most importantly, we got to know a wonderful lady on our street and her cute three-year-old son whom no one on the street really knew, even though she’s lived her for years.  After this, I hope they’ll feel more acquainted and more a part of the social network on the street.

The ladies stayed for about 2 hours left better acquainted with me and each other.  I was delighted to host this lunch and delighted to have the company of my lovely neighbor ladies.

I’d recommend holding a lunch (see no. 176 on the THE LIST) to anyone who is feeling lonely or shut-in during the cold weather.  I bet a dollar that you have some neighbors who are feeling exactly the same way.  It’s a great way to extend a hand of friendship and welcome everyone.  I’m only sorry that I didn’t take any photos.  Oops!  I guess I’ll just have to do it again sometime.

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Dr. Laura–Inspiring Me To Be Nice To My Husband

For my premier Friday, “People Who Inspire Me” post I could really only select one person… Dr. Laura.  She’s at the tippy-top of my Inspirational People list.

When I got my first office job at 19 and was bored out of my mind all day, I found talk radio.  I was turned off by political commentators because most of them are full of their own blather.   When I came across Dr. Laura’s radio program I was instantly hooked.

I listened to her program every day in the afternoons.  She takes calls from people with moral dilemmas and problems and offers advice and solutions. She is quick and to the point and never beats around the bush.

I know avoided SO MANY PROBLEMS as a young single woman by listening to her calls. I listened and took the advice she gave.  I truly credit her for helping me keep my life simple and mostly problem-free.

What she taught me about marriage, raising children and generally being a productive citizen has truly shaped my life.  I’m not sure I’d be the straightforward, positive person I am today without her influence.

The best advice she’s ever given me is in her book called The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands, which came out just as I was getting engaged.  I read it during my engagement.  I credit it largely as the reason for the deeply loving relationship I share with my husband.

I have put her wisdom to the test and am happy to report that I have found what she says to be true!  I’d advise any woman anywhere to read this book, identify potentially damaging behaviors of which you are guilty, change those behaviors and replace them with kinder ones and enjoy a happier more fulfilling marriage.

Per her advice in the book, I try to treat my husband with basic kindness and good manners.  In turn, he would bring me the world on a silver platter if that’s what I requested.  I have found it to be just that simple.

In addition she is a living example of living a healthy and fun lifestyle.  She is an active Sailor, Black Belt in Karate, has a son in the Military, and regularly rides her Harley Davidson.  How can you NOT admire a woman in her 60’s doing all that?

I have listened to Dr. Laura continuously right up until the time her syndicated program moved to Sirius Satellite Radio.  Since then I have desperately missed listening to her program in my car while driving around in the afternoon.  She kept me company for so many afternoons while I was a new mom.  I always had my kitchen radio tuned-in while I fed my babies or made lunches and dinners.

I am a member of the Dr. Laura.com family and listen to old broadcasts occasionally, but it’s not nearly as convenient.  I miss her daily inspirations, but have enjoyed watching little snippets of wisdom on the Dr. Laura YouTube channel whenever I get the chance.

If you’re seeking some sort of marital advice or are trying to simplify your life, I wouldn’t hesitate to refer you to any of her books. I re-read her book The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands on a regular basis.  It’s like my marriage bible.

Someday I’d like to have her over for dinner so I can tell her how much I like her.

Dr. Laura, if you’re reading this, consider it an invitation.

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The Funnest 30 Day Challenge Ever!

Remember when you were single?  Remember how there was always something FUN going on?

Remember how on Thursday or maybe even Wednesday it was time to start thinking about Friday or Saturday nights? A date (hopefully)? Would it be a group going out? Dancing? Road trip? Whatever it was, it was always something.

Anticipating fun things made being single great! A lot of people (including me) made the mistake of thinking that finding fun things to do after marriage was unnecessary. I guess I assumed that once I was married I would somehow be entertained for life.

My husband and I found enough fun things to do to make marriage great until we had our first child.  That’s when I really started to miss having fun and looking forward to fun things that I WANTED to do.  I subconsciously replaced fun with eating and consequently gained a lot of weight.  Oops. (I’ve since lost it. That was fun).

If you’re feeling down, depressed or blue, a lack of fun may be your problem too. It really might be just that simple.

I’m not saying that FUN-having will SOLVE all your problems; I am simply saying that having an appropriate amount of fun in your life makes you more regular.   It’s kind of like fiber in your diet.  I don’t need to explain what happens when you don’t get enough fiber do I?  You get all stopped up, that’s what.  If you don’t have any fun, you’ll get all stopped up too, just in a different way.

So here’s the challenge. Visit my Pleasant Events List and pick 30 fun, pleasant things to do.  Then plot them out over the next 30 days and have 30 pleasant events. Most are super simple to do (so don’t tell me you don’t have time). Pick things you know you CAN do rather easily and make them a priority.  Also pick a couple things that will require a little more planning to accomplish, they will be worth the while, I promise.

Feel free to write me and let me know what you did; what was your favorite thing or what new things you learned about yourself.

For me, it’s not just about doing fun things, it becomes more about the things I think of, or feel, or are introduced to because of the fun things I am doing.

For example: I went snowshoeing a few years ago, because it was on the LIST it took me inside the mountains in winter-time which I am embarrassed to say is something I’d never done.  The beauty I found there was simply awe-inspiring.  Addicting. I’ll never forget the sound of the snowmelt off of thousands of trees dripping with moisture or the iridescent glitter of the snow gleaming in the bright sunlight.

While snowshoeing I saw cross country skiers. It looked easy, so we rented some skis (for $8 at Sports Chalet anyone can do this, it’s not expensive) and tried it the next weekend.  That led me to want to try downhill skiing which I’d also never done.  Turns out I LOVE SKIING!!!  And I’m pretty good for a beginner.  Now I am in a whole new place than I once was.  Who knew I would turn out to be a winter sport NUT.

I hope you’ll take the challenge.  I know you’ll love it.  Leave me a comment and let me know that you’re taking the challenge. I know you’ll have a great experience.

Have Fun!

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Friendly Chatter–#244

I am a really fortunate person who grew up in a neighborhood teeming with children.  I had lots of little friends my age to play with.  In fact I have many who are still a part of my life.

I’ve been planning and looking forward to a dinner and some “Friendly Chatter” with my two BFF’s Misty and Terrisa from my old neighborhood.  More than just friends, the three of us were also roommates together at Weber State University.  Everyone told us that if we lived together we’d never stay friends.  Ha! Were they wrong! We had some tough times, but we’re closer than ever now, so take that Murphy’s law!

We’ve enjoyed a life-long friendship from elementary school to teenage sleepovers more numerous than I can count.  We stayed friends all the way to our weddings and beyond.  I was the last to marry and these two were my pregnant maids-of-honors.  Nothing is classier than having two pregnant bridesmaids. I wouldn’t have had it any other way. (Ignore the massive sunburn on my shoulders…no one thinks about applying sunscreen on your wedding day, you really need to if you get married in August.)

We have a long history together, so I’m always excited to see them.  We met up last weekend at Olive Garden.  I haven’t been there in years, mainly because it’s not on the circuit of restaurants we frequent which are: Chic-fil-A, Arby’s, La Puente and In-and-Out (we obviously have very sophisticated taste).

It was so great to chatter with each other about people we used to know, our families, jobs and current events.  My girlfriends and I get together and have lunch a few times a year, but this was the first time in years we’d been together with our spouses.  It was really great, especially since we left the six kids we have between us home for the evening.

I especially enjoyed hearing and celebrating news of a long awaited new job for Misty’s husband.  Second to that in highlights of the evening was hearing the dramatic conclusions to different episodes in each of our lives. I wish I had more time to dedicate to this friendship, but usually settle for the occasional phone call and semi-regular lunches.  In between, I watch facebook posts and try to piece together what life is like for my beloveds.

We ended the evening by visiting the childhood home of our friend Bodtch where her mother Mary still lives.  Mary was recently diagnosed with breast cancer and is currently undergoing treatment.  It was so special to be able to sit in her living room to wish her well and give her the update on our lives.  She was almost a mother to me.  I grew up watching Days of our Lives in her Kitchen.  This lady, Mary, is tough as nails.  She’s beat the odds at life several million times already, so I’m not worried at all especially since her prognosis looks pretty darn good.

I only wished I’d remembered my camera to take more photos of our fun evening.  I really love these ladies.  I’d looked forward to this evening for several weeks.  It was all I hoped it would be and more.

I hope you’ll take the initiative to reconnect with close friends from the past and get your “Friendly Chatter” on.  It’s #244 the Pleasant Event List.  There is something about kindling up those old friendships that make you feel loved and cherished.  It’s enough to keep you feeling warm and cozy inside for a good, long while.  If you’re down at all or just miss an old friend, give #244 a try.

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Sundance 2012—Everyday I’m Shufflin’—Shufflin’

If you’re talking about things that are fun, things that I look forward to…Going celebrity watching at the Sundance Film Festival has to be number one on my list!

When I was dating my husband, he took me to an Aneheim Angels game. I saw Bill Nye the Science Guy sitting not too far from us. This was very exciting to me and I decided then that I wanted to do more celebrity stalking.  Over the years I have sought out many opportunities to see celebrities, especially when the stars come to me in Utah at the Sundance Film Festival.

This year did not disappoint. We started out by walking Main Street in Park City.  We’ve had tremendous luck there in the past, so we decided to forgo film venue loitering focusing only on celebrity sightings on Main.

Unfortunately the snow was a bit of a bummer.  Normally we LOVE the snow and snowfall, but the snow was INCREDIBLY wet and plentiful.  It felt like someone was constantly spraying our face with a misting spray bottle.  It was hard to see where we were going, let alone look at everyone in the face and underneath all their winter wear to see if they were famous.

Last year we found and stood outside the New York Lounge on Main Street watching multiple celebrities be interviewed by different reporters.  This year, when we walked by the same lounge, there were no celebrities, but a lot of media people.  One group noticed us outside the window and turned the camera on us and started filming.  They motioned for us to be animated and to take some photos which we did, like we were idiots standing outside The Today Show (which I’ve also been).  Then they invited us in to show us the footage.  It was a little embarrassing, but kinda cool to see ourselves on camera.  It was really fun to be inside the lounge.

You might be able to tell that this group was the New York Film Commission’s home base.  We met some fun people and got some fun shots.

After, we wandered around for a while without seeing a single famous person. We were again summoned to come inside the old Harry-O’s club by some scantily dressed women. They were throwing a Yogurtland themed Dance Party!  We just had to see what was inside.

Inside we were given as much free stuff as we could carry.  We got free glasses (sans lenses), a hoodie, and exercise top and as many temporary tattoos as we wanted.  I also made several new friends.

This guy…

And this guy…

They both LOVED my sparkle-heart top.  I mean, who wouldn’t? It’s awesome (and totally age appropriate).

We were having a blast, but started to feel like we were inside the great and spacious building, so we didn’t stay too long. Plus we had a job to do.  See celebrities! So we took the loot and split.

We didn’t really understand what the point of the party was until we got home and researched it a little. Apparently it was a clothing line launch for the ever-popular “music” group LMFAO.  You might know their song “Party Rock in the house tonight, everybody gonna have a good time”  Recognize it yet?  “Everyday I’m Shufflin, shufflin” Now you know it!  If you still can’t recognize the song, here’s a link.

Anyway, I totally can’t wait to wear my new Party Rock gear to my next dance party which will likely take place at my local Rec Center during a Zumba class.  All my Zumbie friends will be so jealous of my new threads!

We cruised around for a little while and struggled back through the snow.  I had some serious make-up problems evidenced in this photo.

Notice my upper eyelid? That’s an imprint of my liquid eyeliner.  Since there was nothing I could do to make it better with out q-tips, I decided to just go with it.  Who knows, maybe all the stars will be wearing double eyeliner next year.

Next, we came across the Acura coffee lounge.  Through the window we thought we saw Michael Douglas hobnobbing. 
Let’s just say it WAS him (it wasn’t).  We looked in for a while and then walked on when we noticed sign on the door that said “Come In” So, we did.

Despite our un-famous attire and the moisture we tracked in, they treated us like celebrities in there!  They insisted they take our photo in front of the media wall.  Invited us to view the hot car.  They even offered us hot coffee.  It was pretty awesome, except the fact that all the snow which was on us started to melt and water was POURING off of our hats and coats and my backpack.  It was a little embarrassing, so we moved on.  And set out to saunter around some more on Main Street.

After a few more minutes outside, we finally gave up on walking the streets and decided to squat as long as we could under a covered sidewalk to wait for famous people to walk past.   We heard that Ethel Kennedy (the wife of the late Bobby Kennedy and sister-in-law of JFK) was lurking around nearby.  We did see one old, old lady, but she looked so UN-famous we knew it couldn’t be her.  Here she is from behind wearing an old coat, tennis shoes and a promo baseball cap.  We knew that couldn’t be a Kennedy.

Just as we were wondering if we’d ever see anyone famous, a familiar face walked by.  I know him as Tom Hatherford.  That’s the character he plays on NBC’s Parks and Rec.  He quickly slipped right past us and into the Denim Bar Store.  We followed quickly behind him.   I asked him for a photo once I caught up to him.  Aziz Ansari wasn’t as gracious as I would have expected Tom Hatherford to be, but he was nice enough to stand there while Steve snapped this photo. Even though he wasn’t as excited as I wished he would have been, we were still pretty thrilled to have this sighting.  We actually do like this guy and watch him every week on TV.

We went back out and took our post back on the sidewalk.  The aforementioned un-famous lady came out of the T-Shirt store and attempted to cross the street right in front of where we were standing.  She was at least 80 years old.  I was worried about her safety.  She did have a person with her who was helping her through the snow, but I knew it wouldn’t be enough to get her across the street without falling.  There was at least a foot of slush in the gutter and all over the street.

I quickly moved over to her side, took her arm, and told her I wanted to help her get across without falling.  She looked at me like she thought I was an angel.   So, the three of us and Steve who helped block traffic, safely got this nice old lady across the street.

She thanked me several times and asked me what my name was.  Since she asked me my name, I asked her if she was Ethel.  I expected her to say no, but she said.  “I sure am!” Once we got to the other side I told her how lovely it was to meet her and asked if she’d mind if we had a photo together.  She happily agreed.

Steve took this shot.  Right after she turned to me and said… “He was WAY too close!  I am going to be all NOSE in that picture, tell him to move back and take another one!”  Steve quickly followed her command and we took a second shot.

Here it is.  She was right, she did look better the second time.

Then she was helped into a waiting luxury SUV and whisked away.   If you’re wondering why she was there, one of the biggest films premiering at Sundance is called ETHEL and is about her life.  The premiere happened the day before.  Taylor Swift came to the premiere.  I guess she has a fetish for the Kennedys. I guess Ethel was just doing some last minute shopping before heading out of town.  She was shopping in the Sundance Festival store.  I guess she wanted a T-Shirt or a magnet for a souvenir.  She’s just like me.

It was quite the Sundance experience.  You just never know who the famous people are.  While some look really famous, others look as unfamous and anyone can get.

If you don’t already  know (I didn’t) Ethel Kennedy is Robert Kennedy’s wife and mother to ten children.  She’s JFK’s sister-in-law.  In doing a little after research we learned that Jackie O wouldn’t let her children play over at their cousins’ house because she thought it was too wild over there.  I guess I can’t blame her.  Ten children?  I bet it was wild.

After the commotion was over, we took our posts back in our spot and waited.  After a little while, we saw some commotion and moved over to see who it was.

Jason Ritter.  John Ritter’s son.  He was gracious to everyone.  He signed autographs and also posed for pictures.  Here’s me and Jason Ritter.  He was a very nice guy.

We waited in our spot for another good while and then the sidewalks got pretty crowded.  It was pretty late in the day.  People were starting to come off the ski slopes and up Main Street toward food or hotels.  There was a pack of people who sounded like they were having fun moving toward us.  When they got right in front of us, I recognized a voice.  It was a voice I knew from watching every episode of Donald Trump’s Celebrity Apprentice (What? It’s quality television).  It was Lil Jon!  He was my favorite contestant maybe ever next to Jesse James (except now I think Jesse James is a scum bag for cheating on Sandra Bullock).


I jumped off the curb I was standing on and shouted Lil Jon, I need a photo with you!  You were my favorite on Celebrity Apprentice!  He said… “Get over here girl!”

And this is the photo!  I loved it.  He was so awesome.  He was the same in real life as he was on The Apprentice.

Several other groups of famous people passed by us.  I know they were celebrities, but I didn’t know who they were.  One of the groups I found out after the fact was Ice-T.  He had quite the entourage with him.  Next year we need a celebrity expert with us.  Despite the fact that we do this every year, both Steve and are oblivious to most celebrities.  I have no problem running up and getting the photo, I just need to know which ones are the celebrities.  Why don’t I spend MORE time watching Access Hollywood?!!

We hung around for another little while.  My boots were major leaking and my one foot was totally wet and sloshing around inside my boot.  Not fun.  It started to get dark and was snowing pretty hard.  I really didn’t want to call it quits, but Main Street seemed to be emptying out as people were filling up the restaurants and bars.

My feet and my back were starting to ache from standing in one place ALL DAY LONG.  We decided to make one more walk up Main Street before calling it a day.  I’m glad we did, because it was so beautiful. Snowy and slushy, but beautiful.

How many opportunities do you have to walk around in the snow like this.

We made one more pass by the Egyptian Theater.

Then made our way toward the transit station to catch a bus back to the lot where we parked our car.

Here’s a look at what we traipsed through all day.  No wonder Ethel Kennedy needed and extra hand.

We were greatly relieved to be sitting down on the cozy shuttle bus at the end of a long, but thrilling day in Park City.

We ended the day with a white knuckle drive through Parley’s Canyon.  I wondered if we might be spending the night on the side of the interstate.  The snow was coming down so hard and we moved along at about 5 miles an hour. Just when we couldn’t move any further, three big snow plows came by and plowed us through.  It wasn’t pleasant travel after that, but it was do-able.  Before we knew it, our baby girls were back in our arms.  I missed them after being gone all day.  Big thanks to my Brother and Sister-in-Law who watched them for us.  Without their help our FUN day in the snow together would not have been possible.  

 

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Be a Person, Not a Symbol of a Person

As I was preparing this blog site I included an “About Me” section which included a photo.  When I saw the picture of myself on the site I was really disappointed.  It didn’t look good, or right.  So naturally, I enhanced the photo.  I didn’t do anything too drastic. I basically just gave myself all the dermatological skin treatments I want and can’t afford via Photoshop.  It was easy, free and fast.  I felt much better about the photo on the blog.  It looked right.

I explained what I had done to my husband as he walked by and saw me working.  He off handedly commented about his studies in art history (his minor in college) and how the after the artistic movements through the ages perfected realism.  Example here…

(Sorry about the general grossness of this piece including (but not limited to) the Janet Jackson style wardrobe malfunction the lady is having in this masterpiece.)

And then immediately moved on to stylize people and things to flatter in their artistic depictions.

According to my husband, the most highly stylized civilization (artistically and otherwise)  has to be the ancient Egyptians.  I mean look at these folks.

You can tell they are people, but is this what these people really looked like? I bet you a cinnamon bear that the answer to the is No.  It’s a symbol of what they looked like.  This is what they thought they looked like.

Here’s what I actually look like (with full hair and make-up and ultra slimming undergarments and under the direction of a highly experienced professional photographer (the best in the business)).

Here’s me as a symbol or what I “think” I look like.

 

Anyway…my husband’s comment made me realize that we as a society must find a way to be happy with what we really are and try less to become symbols of ourselves. I’m not saying we shouldn’t make ourselves look attractive with make-up and fancy hair-do’s and probably a little self tanner every once in a while, but really, know when to walk away and call it good.

Anyway…I left the “symbol” of me rather than my actual photo in the in the “About Me” section, so I guess all that is easier said then done.  I’d have fit in the Egypt in the olden days.  I do love to wear black liquid eyeliner. Being satisfied with yourself is easier said than done.

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Hey…just so you’re aware…

Many women don’t enjoy having babies.  I am one of them.  It’s not because I don’t love them or because I am a bad person.  I do think having babies is worth the effort.  And I must say that I consider myself a good mother.

It has come to my attention that many women feel a great amount of guilt about not loving the newborn stage of their babies or not loving breast feeding or not loving several months of interrupted sleep.

Women, please be aware that it is NORMAL to feel this way.  I have heard a rumor that some women don’t seem to mind this time.  I have to ask myself though…are these women lying?  I think they must be.  It’s like when a woman tells me that their favorite color is blue.  Whatever.  I wish they’d just admit it was pink.  Pink is obviously the best color, especially for girls.

Anyway. can we all just agree not to judge each other for the decisions we make related to if and when we have babies.  Can we all agree that if a woman decides for the sake of her mental health and well- being of the rest of the family not to nurse the newborn that we won’t make her feel like she is poisoning the child by feeding it formula or Reese’s Pieces or whatever she decides to supplement with.

While it might be true that breast milk is best, certainly formula is NOT worst.  I can tell you what worst is…it’s me being filled with RAGE while breast feeding.  That is the worst.  I know because that’s how I felt when I was breast feeding.

Anyway…despite how this sounds, I am certainly a proponent of breastfeeding.  That said I am also a proponent helping new mothers recover mental health after the birth of their child, especially if they’ve lost some.  So let’s just agree to let people do what they want with regards to how many babies they have and how they feed them once they’re here.  Let’s not make them worry about how we might feel about it.

Important also, if you’re the one with the baby…just try not to care so much about what other people may be thinking.  Because nine times out of ten, the only thing they are thinking about is themselves.

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Mission of the Vocal Sokol–Not an electronic Affirmation Service

Despite how it may sound, the mission of the Vocal Sokol is NOT to provide you with a daily quote about happiness. Rather, the Vocal Sokol exists to VOICE a reminder to seek out happy, fun, joyful things TO DO on a daily basis. Happiness comes from DOING things you like and look forward to everyday.

We forget that having fun is an important part of life.  In many cases, it makes life worth living.

I started the Vocal Sokol as an outlet to document my life’s journey and many varied adventures in fun. It is part of my own recovery from an episode of mental un-wellness after the birth my first child (postpartum depression).

After several months of watching his new wife deteriorate, my husband sat me down and told me my life didn’t have to be sad and boring forever. This was NOT was he expected when he married a lively, fun and very social girl.

He broke out the binder he kept after going through his own break-down in college. Part of his recovery from mental un-wellness was having a pleasant event to look forward to every day.

He instructed me to have my own pleasant event every day. I was unaware that I had turned from a single fun-loving party animal into a Mom-bot, nursing a baby, cleaning, cooking, sleeping and overeating.

After our conversation, I made an effort to DO things I personally enjoyed, even if it was a pain to plan or I didn’t get everything else on my list done. Anticipating each daily act of fun changed my life. It gave me the momentum I needed and propelled me into the deeply fulfilling and happy life I lead now.

I desperately want this for all women everywhere. There are so many important responsibilities and burdens we bear.  Anticipating a little fun every day, makes it all worth the effort.

The Vocal Sokol is the VOICE to your personal call to action. Fun generally does not spontaneously happen for adults. You have to MAKE IT HAPPEN.

I hope to inspire other people especially women and mothers by sharing with you my lifestyle of fun. Don’t think that any of the things you read about here are just happening. I work very methodically to MAKE them happen.

I also use the format of this blog to tell you about people who inspire me with the hope that you feel inspired too.

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